*Updated May 2021
I have a problem.
It’s called Amazon Prime.
I mean, who doesn’t want 2 day shipping, guaranteed? Well sometimes it’s not guaranteed because we have this thing called WINTER in Canada.
Being able to shop for groceries online and have them delivered to your house sounds pretty amazing, right? I’ve never tried it but I was tempted to when my second baby was born. When you haven’t showered in 5 days and you’re too tired to even put regular clothing on, having groceries delivered sounds like a dream come true.
Convenience is what motivates many of us to make the purchases that we do. But you know what isn’t convenient?
I think the majority of people my age, that I personally know have some form of debt whether that be student loans, a mortgage or credit card debt. I have mixed feelings about debt. I think it’s inevitable at some point in your life that you will have some form of debt.
I’m all about finding ways to cut down our our expenses as we have financial goals set for our family. Amazon Prime doesn’t align with my goals of being frugal. Curse you Amazon Prime!
But I want to share ways we cut back on our spending.
- Limit or eliminate Eating At Restaurants or Takeout : Why does food always taste better when someone else prepares and cooks it? Seriously. It could be a hotdog someone else microwaved and I’m all over it. Buying lunch usually costs $10 plus a $3 coffee a day (or more if you’re fancy) which adds up to $65 a week alone. If you factor in eating dinner out, a few times a week that’s easily another $50 or so. You could be saving $300 (or more) by limiting take out and packing your own meals.
- Cook More and Buy Less Packaged (and processed) Foods: Sometimes I enjoy cooking but most of the time I only enjoy it if my husband and I are cooking together. One thing I’ve noticed with our grocery bills is the difference in what we spend when we buy less packaged, processed foods. Packaged is easier, no doubt about it! But it’s also more expensive because it’s convenient. I try to set myself up for success with very simple meals because it’s a generally chaotic time of the day. The more you cook, the healthier meals tend to be, as well. We don’t eat organic, Keto or paleo. We have no allergies. In the last 18 months I strictly shop grocery pick up. Not because I’m worried about germs etc. but because it’s easier with two toddlers AND I actually save money this way. When I place my grocery order online, it’s less likely that I’ll impulse buy. I don’t know if I will ever go back to regular grocery shopping!
- Have A Grocery Budget (and stick to it). When Dave and I first married, we spent about $50 in groceries a week, sometimes less. Since then we’ve fluctuated in what we spend on groceries. Recently I’ve reset our weekly budget because it was OUT OF CONTROL and I’m amazed at how little we can spend if we try. I challenge myself to do a few meatless meals a week, cook with all the meat I already have (in the freezer) and get creative with leftovers. Having a weekly meal plan also helps!
- Ditch The Cable: At point we were spending $180 on cable and internet! WTH. Not anymore. We pay around $80 for unlimited internet now. We bought an Amazon Firestick and we stream everything. I pay $12 for youtube premium so there are no ads when my kids watch their channels. That is a HUGE savings for us overall.
- Shop Secondhand (especially for kids): I switched over to purchasing thrifted clothing around the time I was getting married. I watched a documentary about the negative impact fast fashion is having on our world, today. It changed the way I went about purchasing most things. 90% of the clothing we wear as a family is second hand. I’m not a name brand person to begin with but surprisingly you can find some great brands when shopping second hand. If you haven’t tried Poshmark (Canada) you should try it. It’s been such great way to shop thrifted clothing when clothing has been deemed non-essential in this wacky universe. You can read more about my tips on buying second hand here.
- Invest in Reusable, Low or Zero Waste Products: We used to spend less than $60 a month on diapers. That is because we mostly cloth diapered. I Cloth diapers saved us SO MUCH! And if you think we spend a ton on hydro/water from washing them all the time, read THIS. I also use reusable sanitary products which you can read more about here. We bring our reusable grocery and produce bags to the store.
- Cut Down On Your Utilities. We try to practice being smart with how/when we use our electricity. We have our own well water. Since my husband is in HVAC, he makes sure that the Furnace are running efficiently. He changes out the filter and we close windows/curtains to keep the cool in. You could open windows for air circulation during the day, turn off lights when not in use and unplug appliances. Reuse dishwater for watering plants etc.
- Do It Yourself: I am a HUGE fan of DIY. Most people probably think arts and crafts when it comes to DIY. But DIY can apply to so many things in life. It’s kinda scary how dependant we’ve become on others, to do things for us as a society. I’m wary of paying others to do everything for me. It’s good to have some SKILLS, am I right? I’m not very good with power tools but I’m letting my husband teach me. We’ve made all the decor in our home. I’m taking sewing classes this fall and we grow a garden every year. We learned how to can from my husband’s grandfather and we started experimenting with dehydrating different foods a few summers ago. My husband and I both grew up with fathers who were handy so naturally, it’s simple logic for us to learn to do certain things for ourselves. My husband is also in the trades so he’s extremely skilled with tools.
- Take Care Of What You Already Have: You might be wondering how this saves you money? I think it’s pretty simple but if you take good care of what you already own, the chances of it breaking and needing to be replaced are less likely. Inevitably there are things in life that will need replacing. But how much money do we waste because we are careless? My husband is in a field of work that places him inside people’s homes. He has seen everything you can imagine. He said what frustrates him is to see how people do not maintain their homes. A home is easily the largest investment of a person’s life. Why wouldn’t you take care of it? I think it’s important to note here that not everything can be done yourself. Sometimes you need to hire an expert so you don’t try to fix something way beyond your skill set.
- Have One Car, Walk or Take Public Transit: Apart from a few months when we first married and then a few years when my husband had a job with a work truck, we’ve only ever had one car. Right now he works really close to home. Do I HAVE to go somewhere every day? I usually spend money if I do. Having one car means you are paying less in terms of gas, insurance and car payment (or even LESS if you owe nothing on your car). I drive my husband to work (5 minutes down the road) when I need to car which is about once a week.
- Live In A Place You Can Afford. This is unique to each family based on location, income and financial responsibilities. We recently sold our first home ( in what I consider the city) and purchased a fixer upper bungalow on 8 acres, in the Ottawa Valley. We are literally drowning in projects and we love it! There is always work to be done but this is what we could afford. We had to move about 5.5 hours away from family and friends but our mortgage is more than manageable. We budgeted for new windows and a ductless AC this year but those are the only renovations for now. We do what we can afford and we don’t get caught up in needing things to be “perfect.” I also love that where I live, everyone seems to be this way, constantly working on their homes/properties.
We are a single income family and we’ve been a single income family the majority of our marriage. I’m sure someone could say, “Just get a job, Sarah.” Thanks but I already have one. I’m raising my kids! And that’s not to say that a mom who works another job outside the home isn’t raising her kids. Those mamas have TWO jobs. Whew! The cost of childcare would make going back to work completely pointless, for what I would earn. One income is what we’ve learned to live on. It takes discipline and perspective to live this way and we aren’t perfect at it. I think it’s taught us a lot about what we need versus what we want. It’s also teaching us to resolve financial obligations and having more freedom with our hard earned money!
What are ways that you cut down on the cost of living and save in your home? I’d love to hear from you!